Traits of a Scorpio Man in Love and the Dos and Don'ts of Dating Him

Scorpio man in love
A Scorpio man, when in love, is loving, passionate, and intense. If you are ready to match up to his intensity, he can be a wonderful partner in a relationship. Here are some interesting aspects about his nature in a love relationship, and also tips to date him.
Identifying a Scorpio man in a crowd is simple. For one, you simply cannot ignore his gaze. He will appear calm and confident. You will be attracted to his mystical aura like a magnet. But, before forming a relationship with this water sign, there are a few things you need to be aware of.
For the basics, people born in between October 24th - November 22nd belong to this eight zodiac sign. It is one of the four fixed signs (the others being Leo, Taurus, Aquarius).
Scorpio Traits
Dissecting the true nature of this man is next to impossible (even if you have known him for a long while now). However, there are a few traits that are commonly found in Scorpios.
A Scorpio always appears calm and composed on the surface. But, look inside, and you will find that he is passionate about everything in his life. Scorpios are a mixture of intellect, emotions and philosophy. But, at the same time, he is very generous and loves to live his life luxuriously and to the fullest.
Deep inside, Scorpios are very sensitive by nature. But, they hate being vulnerable, and hence, do not trust people easily. You will know of his true emotions and feelings only when he trusts you.
Scorpio men are mysterious and hence, people are attracted to them. But, they are very selective in choosing their partners and have really high standards. They may indulge in flings easily, but will commit to a lifelong relationship only with the right woman.
Scorpio Man in a Love Relationship
Scorpios want to be the best, have the best, and hence, will always look for the best. He usually falls for a woman who is intelligent, adventurous, talented, sporty, independent, passionate about something, emotional and understanding; but willing to let him take the lead. With the right woman, a Scorpio man will be the most romantic and ardent lover any woman can have.
Intense
Scorpio is considered as one of the most sensual signs of the zodiac. A lot is spoken about Scorpios and their sensuality. Lovemaking with a Scorpio is often passionate and lustful. You may simply be amazed by his sensual nature and unmatched intensity.
Trustworthy
Although popular and notorious for being passionate, a Scorpio man is rarely promiscuous. If he is really into you and serious about having a happy future, he will be a very trustworthy and loyal partner. He may stray only when he feels unloved, ignored or henpecked. Although it is easy to seduce a Scorpio man, he will appreciate a woman who is warm and sensitive to him.
Demanding
As mentioned above, a love relationship with a Scorpio man is intense and extreme. He will demand affection and reassurance of your love for him. He also expects his woman to be faithful and loyal to him. As long as he has the reins and does not feel threatened, he will happily allow you to pursue your interests. Being trustworthy, caring and understanding about his needs is the only way to reach his heart and have a long-term relationship with him. Also note that a Scorpio is as demanding sexually as he is emotionally. A Scorpio male in love is the most romantic, but, demanding partner.
Emotional
Beneath his cool and composed nature, a Scorpio is intensely emotional and moody. He has immense self-control and tries to conceal his true emotions. You need to be considerate and understand his mood swings. Your Scorpio man will try to control his negative emotions as he doesn't want to lose you. You can trust and depend on him to do the right things at the right time.
Possessive
The Scorpio man is extremely possessive and suspicious. He also has a curious nature and will not hesitate in questioning you about anything. Remember that a Scorpio, more often than not, has an ability to look through lies and prevarications. He is also very jealous and can be primitive if his temper is aroused. He will want his woman to be loving, caring, supportive and totally committed. If you have a flighty and flirtatious nature, then maybe he is not a good match for you.
Dating a Scorpio Man
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Do's
  • Winning the trust of Scorpio man takes a lot of time. To win his heart, first you need to gain his trust by showing how reliable you are. A Scorpio man does not fall in love easily.
  • Scorpio men like confident, independent and mysterious women.
  • Support your Scorpio partner, compliment his personality or his dressing sense. People belonging to this sign love being appreciated.
  • Dating this man is definitely not for the faint-hearted woman. Be courageous, argue fairly and hold your ground when necessary.
  • A Scorpio man will hardly make any soulful declarations of love, but, will make sure that you always feel loved and protected.
Don'ts
  • Do not ever think of playing games with him or tame him, he will NEVER ever forgive you for that.
  • When in a relationship with a Scorpio, you should neither be completely submissive nor completely controlling.
  • A Scorpio man is very conservative in matters of love and will want to keep intimacy and his private life, private. Avoid publicizing intimate details of your relationship.
  • Do not lie to him or unnecessarily flatter him as he has an ability to see clearly through any falsehood.
  • Do not dominate him or threaten his authority. He has a natural desire to lead and to be in control of things.
A Scorpio man will face the hostile world with his head held high if he loves you. If he thinks you are the right choice, he will love you with all his heart and try hard to get you. Do not lose him as he will be the most loyal and caring man to spend your life with! Ciao!
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