Well, when it comes to dating a water-bearer, the traditional tricks and tips are of no use. Unlike other men belonging to different zodiac signs, an Aquarian guy will take his own time to get attracted to you, and perhaps a tad bit longer to say those 3 divine words. So, be prepared to be patient, because in this case, patience will be more than just a virtue!
What do we tell you about the water-bearer, or to be more specific, the male water-bearer? First off, he is highly unconventional and refuses to be bounded by established norms. Secondly, you will have to let go of any mushy, romantic, and pampering expectations (if you had any) from this relationship. For this guy, everything is logical, and your mushy talks and girly tantrums are enough to put him off easily!
That didn’t start with a good note, did it? We’re not trying to discourage you to date this guy, all we’re trying to say is that he is not your type if you’re one of those girls who likes throwing tantrums, being pampered, and follow the world in the way it runs. Though, it won’t be a difficult task to get his attention, what will make things challenging is to keep him involved in you. Another word of caution: An Aquarian guy is likely to be commitment phobic. Being an air sign, he wishes to be free, wandering and exploring all possibilities of life, and you need to accept this side of his. However, if you manage to get the key to his heart, rest assured, you are the only one who would have it. This is because Aquarius is known to be the most loyal among all the other signs.
Essential Tips to Attract an Aquarius Guy
Freedom lover, intelligence seeker, an avid explorer, a creative thinker, and a rule-breaking buff! These are his essential characteristics that you must be aware of if you’re looking for a serious relationship with an Aquarius guy. Now, with these qualities, it would be evident to you that this guy is no fool, and is definitely not easy to get. So, you’ll have to take one step at a time, and in doing so, get close to him eventually.
Being an unconventional person himself, the first thing that will attract him to you would be your eccentricity. You need to be a refreshing ray of light, someone who is different from the rest.
Now, when we ask you to be eccentric, it doesn’t mean that you wear some flashy clothes, or stand up the table to express how happy you are, we just mean to say that don’t be like every other girl―straight hair, red lipstick, branded handbag―just be comfortable and relaxed. Even if that means avoiding high heels and wearing flip flops to a nightclub, because you’re thinking of your comfort―he would like that.
He would love to spend some time engaging in an intelligent or intellectual conversation. The best thing is that it needn’t be confined to his topic of interest. As long as you are sure of what you’re talking about, and share some amusing facets of a certain niche with him, you will be admired the right way.
A guy under this zodiac loves exploring new thoughts and ideas. During the conversation, he will put forth his view. You need to respect these views, as well. Don’t start with an immature-ish argument to prove your point. Talk as a grown up individual who understands that not everything in the world is in sync with your thinking.
This guy is driven by creativity, and if you too share the same gift, this could be the force that drives him closer to you! If you are good in music, singing, writing, perhaps painting, or any other area where you need to stimulate your creativity, this could be an added advantage.
Or else, you can display your creativity in the way you talk to him―innovating new puns, or some really unusual observations in your day-to-day life, all this would be extremely interesting to him. Let him know that you see this world in a different way, and he would definitely want to explore your view.
With this man, don’t expect to think of a serious involvement without becoming a trustworthy friend of his first. As we said earlier, he would take his own sweet time to observe you, to understand you thoroughly. Become a friend he can confide in, discuss absolutely anything under the sun, be yourself with him, and accept him just the way he is without emotional drama. All this would be very important for him, before he finally decides to utter the three words.
One thing that a lot of people, especially girls, find difficult to do, is to maintain their sanity at times. Not that this guy will not give you a chance to complain. His sudden disappearance, detachment, and also his eccentricity may get to you at times. But, instead of creating a big fuss about it through melodramatic expressions, crying, and emotional dialog, speak to him in a calm and mature manner.
For instance, if you are upset with him because he hasn’t met you for some time, instead of saying, “Guess you’re bored with me”, say, “What adventure trip are you in?” Excuse the sentimental talk, please!
It is highly important to be at peace with the fact that this guy cannot be influenced, he has a mind of his own, and you cannot expect him to change when in a relationship. For him, being with you should mean a companion who he can fly with (or fly back to), not who wants him to be closed in a cage.
The thing with this guy is that when he needs to focus on a particular project, that is all where his mind would be. You can’t expect him to be around all the time. Which is why, be least bothered about your weekly dates, or everyday phone calls in the night. You live your life and let him live his, respect that, and he will make sure you guys live happily together. A good part about the patience is that you may suddenly be bestowed with sweet lovingly gestures, provided you don’t expect them.
With the kind of traits he has, he is bound to get bored easily. You need to give him reasons to be drawn to you time and again. The kind of surprises would depend on the relationship phase you are in. For instance, if you have become a good friend of his quite recently, get him something nice and thoughtful based on his interests. It needn’t be a big and expensive gift, perhaps a ticket to an art fair!
Being a creative being, he would love to explore and analyze some good artwork. It would be good to keep things exciting when with this guy. A surprise dinner at a wacky spot, some intriguing games, or a good documentary? The bottom line is to never let your routine get mundane. Something stirring must take place for him to stick around. Therefore, show your amazing facets to him, step-by-step so that he feels that he is still exploring you, and that you still have a lot of unexplored facets to yourself.
These tips will be well worth the effort, if you are ‘actually’ what these points demand. You know, you can pretend to be all that you’re not, but it would not last forever. Aquarians are great observers, and your facade would be revealed within no time. If you think of it, the last thing this man would want is to be with a person who is a total sham! Remember, he loves diversity! It doesn’t matter if you’re just not his type, if you are true to yourself, he will respect that. Otherwise, you will be out of his zone without any prior notice.
Please Note: The aforementioned information is based on the traits of this zodiac sign. While most born under it are perceived to contain these traits, note that, not all men will fit in the same shoes. Observe the guy carefully before presuming what you need to do in order to get him to like you.