Sometimes, it so happens that in the initial days of courtship, the couple seem so much in love. However, as the time passes, the disagreements and arguments start erupting. And so, one is bound to wonder, 'what went wrong', or 'why is it not working'? In most of the cases, the answer lies in the fact that the individuals belong to two incompatible astrological signs. As the basic natures of these individuals is different, there are rare chances of the relationship to work; and more chances of causing disagreements. However, these ups and downs can be avoided, if there is understanding on both parts. The Gemini man and Cancer woman love relationship is somewhat like that. Before knowing more about the compatibility, let us first take a brief look at the personality traits of the Cancer woman and the Gemini man.
The Cancer woman is very feminine and sensitive. She is very caring and loyal. At the same time, she is intelligent, well read in most of the cases and a very friendly individual. However, she is very emotional and appears too clingy. As the sign Cancer is symbolized by the crab, these individuals have qualities that resemble their zodiac symbol. For e.g. this woman appears tough and hard on the surface, but is very sensitive and caring deep inside.
The Gemini man is everybody's friend, yet he belongs to no one. He appears very detached, because he loves his freedom more than anything else and hates being tied down. Gemini men are intelligent, witty, social and friendly, yet fickle. Other Gemini traits include being impulsive, inconsistent and even flirtatious. One of the characteristic traits of Gemini men is that they have a dual nature; and not even their close friends and family can describe their true nature exactly.
Gemini Male and Cancer Female Love Compatibility
The opposite natures of these individuals bring them together in such a way that they form an instantaneous love relationship. The Gemini man is very attractive and charming and it's no wonder that a lot of women are attracted to him. However, he is attracted to the shy and modest Cancer woman. Both these are witty and intelligent individuals, and hence, have a lot to talk and share on their first, second and successive dates. The Cancer woman is charmed by the energetic and optimistic nature of the Gemini man; while he too loves her charming nature. However, the differences erupt because these individuals expect different things from their partner.
Firstly, as mentioned above, the Gemini man loves his independence and freedom too much and hates being tied down. Whereas, the Cancer woman literally clings to the man she loves. She is a very doting and caring partner. Although the Gemini man is one of the most romantic males of the zodiac, his inconsistent nature does not go down well with her. She wants constant assurance that he loves her and that they will always be together. In most of the cases, he fails to fulfill her need for security.
Secondly, another factor that affects this love match is that the Gemini man is extremely rational and practical; whereas the Cancer woman is very emotional. The life of the Cancer woman revolves around her man. On the contrary, the Gemini man is a social butterfly and will not thrive without his 'social networking'. The Gemini man is also flirtatious (although its harmless flirting and he is rarely unfaithful) and the Cancer woman is very possessive. This is enough for sparks to fly in their marriage.
For the relationship of a Gemini man and Cancer woman to work, they need to work extra hard. The Cancer woman should give all the freedom the Gemini man needs, and she will find a romantic and caring partner in him. Similarly, the Gemini man should try to understand the emotions and mood swings of the Cancer woman, and in turn he will be blessed to have a charming and intelligent partner. If not, these two individuals will merely remain an unsolved mystery to each other! Ciao!