We don’t blame you to have a massive crush on this female, who was probably the life of the party where you saw her! She was dynamic, fun-loving, carefree, and spoke quite intelligently. Our dear reader, the female that has intrigued you is no one else but a Gemini woman. If you are planning to ask her out, then we are here to tell you the things you should know before dating a Gemini woman.
Tip to Attract a Gemini Woman
Don’t try to get her attention through flattery and mushy talks, she isn’t a gullible girl but a woman of substance who can read you while in a conversation. Show your wit, intelligence, and intellect and sway her away in an intriguing, deeply mysterious conversation. If she is assured that you’re smarter than her, you’ve won half the battle.
Dating a Gemini woman is no Cinderella story. No stepmother can manipulate her, and no stepsisters can torture her to work for them. She doesn’t need a fairy godmother to find her way to the ball dance, she will manage all of this herself! And as far as finding true love is concerned, this is a search that will continue till she finds it. We guess this is a plus point for all those who are trying to woo a Gemini woman at the moment. Yes, she believes in love and is on a constant lookout for her true soulmate.
Before we share some wise piece of advice on dating her, first, it would be important for you to understand her personality traits, what this maiden is like. To begin with, she is a true charmer, and is probably responsible for breaking a lot of hearts in her quest to find the one guy. Clearly, it isn’t very easy to deal with her. She isn’t the girl you can keep indoors, only taking care of your house. Being an air sign, she needs constant change, adventure, and space so as to evolve in this lifetime. Yes, her independence and space matters a lot to her and she cannot be dominated by anyone at all. Also, being ruled by the planet mercury, she is blessed with the gift of eloquence, a spirit that loves to travel, and a mind that seeks surprises and adventures. So, yes, for all the guys who’re looking to date this chick, pull up your socks at all times, because you never know where she’ll take the lover in you.
Points to Keep in Mind Before You Date a Gemini Woman
It isn’t easy to make a Gemini woman fall in love with you, so be rest assured that you’re in for some serious challenge. If she is all nice and friendly in the way she talks, don’t take it as a sign that she’s interested in you. The flirtatious way of talking is just one among her many “misleading” characteristics. She is versatile, talkative, highly energetic, and active. She also needs social interaction to save her highly-active mind from boredom and the plain old things of life. Which is why she comes of as an easy catch, but that is something she is absolutely not. If you truly want her in your life, you’ll have to follow the mantras mentioned below.
1) Be weary of your first impression, ‘coz it is unlikely to change
She is fun, friendly, and will help you feel comfortable at all times. But inside, she will be observing what you’re like. We won’t exactly call her “judgmental”, but yes, if you’re looking to date this girl, make sure that your first impression is nothing but the best. Show her your wit, intelligence, sense of humor, and knowledge about the different facets of life. Be sure that you know about what you speak, because if she establishes in her mind that you are fake, that is what you will be for a long, long time.
2) She’ll talk … a lot! So work on your listening skills
While every woman would appreciate a man who listens to her, this criterion is extremely crucial when it comes to a Gemini woman. Being governed by the messenger of gods, Mercury himself, she can talk about absolutely anything and everything on the planet! And to earn some brownie points to your kitty, you must actively participate in the conversation. If you’re not familiar with the conversation topic, then at least be genuinely interested in learning from what she has to say. If she thinks you are a knowledge-seeker like her, you are walking in the right direction.
3) Handling her energy levels is no piece of cake
She is brilliant when it comes to multitasking. It wouldn’t be wrong to say that she is one woman who can make the most of all the opportunities that life sends her way. She is a dreamer, a searcher for adventure, enlightenment, and believes in going with the flow. She might have promised you for a dinner date, but don’t be surprised if she tells you to drive out of town post the dinner because she feels like exploring the countryside. Her recklessness is not easy for every man to handle, however, if you can, rest assured this relationship will never have a boring moment!
4) If you’re an ‘indoor’ person, respect her need for freedom to be outdoors
Continuing from the aforementioned point, she isn’t the kind who will love a life within walls. She needs to be out there, socializing, making new friends, traveling to new roads. She needs all of this to feel alive, to fulfill her soul path. If you can’t keep up with this, then you should be okay with her need to have her share of limelight, while you relax at home watching a rugby match. If she sees you trust her enough to be independent in her life, she will reciprocate this trust all the more by making your life full of laughter and fun with her great sense of humor and enthusiasm.
5) Remember, you’re dealing with two women
The zodiac symbol of the Gemini woman is that of the twins, and yes, she very well has these dualities in her personality. She will display her maturity at one given instance, and behave like a curious child at the other. In fact, it would be quite difficult to predict her reaction, and you’ll most likely be wondering what side of hers will show at the next moment. Not that this flakiness of hers will always be bad, as her unpredictability contributes to her charm. But, if you’re looking for a longlasting bond with her, this aspect of her nature must be considered.
6) She’ll probably be in touch with her exes
She isn’t like the Pisces, Virgo, or Cancer women who are likely to be heartbroken to an extent that even the thought of their exes would flare up the bitterness. For her, love is important but that isn’t her entire purpose in life. She can handle breakups very well, provided it ended on a good, understandable note. She is a social animal, and chances are that in her huge friends circle, there will be people who are common friends with her exes, and that connection sort of brings her exes back in her social gathering. If you’re with her, you must be okay with this fact and not act possessive or hysterical about it.
7) She’ll appreciate all kinds of games, except mind games!
She is in touch with her exes, and you come up with this brilliantly (dumb) idea to make her feel jealous by inviting your exes. Implement this thought and see her running miles away from you. Not that she can’t take what she gives, but if she perceives (which she will) that you have done all this to make her feel jealous, that you are playing mind games with her, you have lost her forever. She will appreciate mental games, games in the bedroom, or games that stir her pool of knowledge and wit, but this is not something she is game for.
8) She isn’t the kind you can bare your soul to …
As adventurous and moody as she is, with her personality shifting from one end to the other, it is a bad idea to be an open book in front of her. Not that you cannot be yourself with her, or that you must not be 100 percent honest, but you must maintain a sense of mysticism, deep within. You must be a book she wants to read all her life, because she isn’t really able to predict what the end would be like. She has the tendency to get bored quite easily. So, make sure that you never let her feel that all is done and dusted here.
9) She is potentially loyal, but easily distracted
She wants loyalty in her relationship, and if her soulmate search ends on you, she will definitely be a loyal mate. However, it is in her nature to easily lose focus, to get confused between the many adventures that are waiting to be explored out there. Therefore, don’t take her distraction as disloyalty; similarly, don’t take her dating you as complete loyalty as well!
10) She has the tendency to expect a lot …
If you’ve managed to prove it to her that you are the one, that you are the knight in shining armor she was looking for all this while, then you have won her forever. However, with such strong emotions come attachments, and with attachments come jealousy, possessiveness, and expectations. At times, she may be cool about you talking to your female friends, the other time, she will infuriate with jealousy when you do that. She can also be quite demanding at times, and easily go to her negative mood -swing mode when those demands are not fulfilled. But, we guess that’s an aspect that every human has in him/her.
Every human has a positive side and a negative side. When you’re with a Gemini woman, the energy, fun, enthusiasm, and lift that she will bring to your life is incomparable to any other. She has the ability to adapt in any situation, given to the fact that she is blessed with the mutable zodiac qualities. She will fill your life with pleasant surprises and may even go out of her way to make you feel the high of life. The best part about being with her would be that she isn’t the nagging sort, or dependent on you in any way. She will look at you as a companion, not as a provider. You will be a partner who accompanies her and with whom she shares this adventure called life!