Imagine living with two personalities within you. All the time. Two voices in your head, two viewpoints, two opinions, and the constant urge to do things in two different ways. Honestly, I would go stark, raving mad if I were to live like this. But, evidently it is not impossible, for every Gemini on planet earth lives this way. Symbolized by The Twins, Geminines are known for their constantly changing dispositions.
I never come back home with the same moral character I went out with; something or other becomes unsettled where I had achieved internal peace; someone or other of the things I had put to flight reappears on the scene.~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca.
One cannot really blame them for constantly changing their mind because of the two internal voices they must incessantly listen to and when that keeps happening, shuffling between things is very natural. It is this continual tendency of shuffling that make these people extremely active and worshipers of speed. Gemini men are vivacious creatures whose socializing skills can actually compete with that of a Libra woman’s. They are charming conversationalists. The air element makes them flexible and very adaptable. These souls are unpredictable and restless, which makes them despicable and attractive at the same time. Intelligence, impressive amounts of knowledge with regards to diverse areas of life, effective communication skills and versatility are the keywords associated with a Gemini man.
Geminines love people! Their social skills are exquisite and the natural gift of the gab makes them exceptionally popular in party circles. They take the fun quotient up by several notches and know how to keep the air light and happening.
Gemini men are absolute suckers for knowledge. That does not necessarily mean that they always have their noses in books, but you will find them continuously accumulating information about anything and everything under the sun. Intellectual tête-à-têtes stimulate them tremendously. They seek out people who match their mental wavelength and always have interesting tidbits to contribute to discussions. This sort of is a given since Mercury, the ruling planet, also happens to rule communication.
These are supremely romantic people who will fulfill all your dreams of roses and champagne. They are soft and delicate lovers who will keep you happy and safe. However, they detest jealously possessive lovers as they are not remotely jealous themselves. They like to keep things spaced out and comfortable for both parties. He is seldom nosy or domineering. Excessive nagging and clinging is the biggest turn off for a guy like him and he is very quick to get out of such unhealthy arrangements.
Gemini men are exquisite orators and their verbal skills make them supremely awesome salesmen. They can sell ice to Eskimos. In fact, tweaking the truth here and there a little just for the sake of making a sale makes perfect sense to them. They are never guilty of it. So, if you ever find a male Gemini selling someone an iPod saying that it has only been used for five days and is in mint condition, make sure that you check the date of purchase on the receipt and dents on the instrument.
The description of a Gemini man will remain incomplete without discussing the flip-side of his great speaking skills. Since they are a grand combination of good talkers and knowledge gatherers, these men are the best companions you can have when visiting museums, art galleries, exhibitions or watching a thought-provoking film. Their anecdotes and magnificent observation skills just enrich the entire experience manifold. If nothing else, you will end up learning a great deal from these men.
Career options for a Gemini man usually lean towards fields involving communication, travel and intellectual expressions such as journalism, travel and tourism, media, interpretation, negotiation, linguistics and so on. A Gemini man is a skillful and tactful negotiator and usually excels in politics and business.
Loves Brains More Than Beauty
Given his love for intelligent and productive exchanges, the Mercury man will always get attracted to women who can fuel his fire intellectually. The day a Gemini man decides to settle down, he would prefer a partner who is logical and practical. She would be a person who is witty and also shares his intellectual preoccupations. He does have an eye out for the physically beautiful, but only a lady who is sufficiently informed and witty will be able to hold his attention for a long time.
Love for a Gemini man is NEVER singularly based on physical attraction and you should be happy that it isn’t. He likes a woman who has a mind of her own. Most men cannot handle that. This does not necessarily mean that he will agree with all your points of view but will most definitely identify and appreciate your standpoints if he detects a strong and well-informed belief-system backing your arguments. He will respect you as an individual with the right to differ and oppose. They are repulsed by a hollow, indifferent, or a superficial approach to life. He would give you the necessary space and will be far from dominating. In turn, he will expect his partner to give him equal freedom to pursue his interests and passions. He will respect his wife’s wishes and ideas and expect her to reciprocate.
Given the duality of their sun sign, Mercurians are known the world over as notoriously fickle-minded. Their whims are ever-changing and at a speed that is baffling. This is true for even their romantic interests. They are lightening fast to move on when the women in their lives begin to sound like monotonous rings of ancient telephones and are unable to keep the game of constant intellectual stimulation going. They will seek out and shift to greener pastures immediately. Beware! But, it would be unfair to mention that once a woman has successfully achieved intellectual and subsequently emotional harmony with this man, promiscuity will leave the building forever. He will continue to socialize and indulge in elaborate and intelligent debates actively with people, which will include plenty of women, but he will know where exactly to draw the line. His interests will be purely platonic and intention only friendly. He tends to lose interest the moment his partner stops challenging him. It is, therefore, often seen that Gemini men get into a string of quick relationships before settling down once and for all.
Though many women find Gemini men to be exasperating, most of them find him to be a real charmer. As a partner he is neither possessive nor jealous.