You were attracted to the ever charming Gemini man and had a gala time laughing at his jokes at every social function. More the conversations you had with him, more attractive he must have seemed to you. And you were attracted to him. He too was attracted to you and like a true Gemini, he made it known to you as soon as he himself realized! He charmed you into commitment. But, you soon realized that dating a Gemini man is not an easy task. Well, the tips mentioned below will be helpful to you.
Tips on Dating a Gemini Male
For those who may not be aware, a Gemini man is the one born between 21st May to 20th June. These individuals have very peculiar characteristics and hence, are easy to identify. See that impatient man, who is quite good looking, at the center of the party, who is able to talk on a variety of subjects, is witty, etc.; and he is the Gemini man. Now, once you are committed to him, follow these methods to make the relationship last longer!
Stimulate Him Mentally
Gemini men have a very fickle mind, which they can change for even more than 100 times a day. Nothing stimulates the mind of the Gemini man more than an interesting conversation, based on any subject on the Earth. You need to be witty and smart like him to keep him interested. A Gemini man enjoys information of any kind and he might even enjoy gossiping with you.
Keep Away from Emotionality
Nothing can make a Gemini man run away from you than teary promises, sympathy gaining speeches, etc. By nature, Gemini men have very little or rather no understanding of emotions. For this very reason, they appear very cold and detached. If you are the clingy types, with a very low self-esteem and are looking for an assuring partner, then this man is simply not for you. Therefore, if you wish to know an important trick to date a Gemini man, remember to keep emotionality to a bare minimum.
As a continuation of the above, you should avoid being clingy; and rather be confident and aloof even when with him. You should never let him know that you are dependent on him (don't ever be!). You should note that although flirtatious, Gemini men are never dominant or envious. You need to be practical and capable of taking care of yourself in order to win and retain his love and respect.
Boredom is one word and one thing that Gemini men hate like anything. They also hate monotony and hence, are always looking for something interesting. They are also very social, have lots of friends, are fun loving and adventurous. Therefore, when dating this man, it will greatly benefit if you too follow the suite. When with this man, you are going to have a lot of fun and enjoy life like never before. You can also come up with new ideas, plan adventurous dates, etc. to keep him hooked.
Adapt to the Change
The Gemini man is known for his every changing nature and you need to simply learn to adapt to it. He may be divinely romantic today and even forget to call you tomorrow. It is a known fact that understanding a Gemini man thoroughly is very difficult. Therefore, a simple solution, just adapt to the change, take things as they come and live on. And don't ever try to change him, he simply won't!
One of the interesting things about this relationship is that even after being together for a long time, you will not be able to tell for sure about what's it like to date a Gemini man. This is because of his complex and ever changing nature. However, if you follow these techniques, you won't have much of difficulty in understanding this complex man! And it is definitely worth it, if you really want to enjoy life and have fun with a completely non demanding partner. Ciao!